It's been quite some time since i last blogged, had been busy with quite a number of stuff..wadever tt i'm gonna blog today, is gonna b a very heavy topic.

There r many times when we questioned ourselves, do we get to choose in life? Might be wad type of life we wan, who our parent are, and many other stuffs..well the ans can be a yes or no, for example, we might be born in a poor or not well to do family..that's nt wad we can choose - the begining of our live..but we can choose to study hard, work hard or through many other means to improve our lives, to work towards our ideal lifestyle..i mean who would nt wan to drive big cars, stay in big houses facing the sea or a bird's eye view of the surrounding with maids, travel around the world and spend as and when we like..For the lucky ones, they r born in such an enviroment..they wun have to earn for it, fight for it or work for it..for most of us, we r nt tt lucky..everyone will wan such a lifestyle but few will actually achieve it..they are many factors as to why it is so...can be due to family problem, unlucky and maybe juz lazy..for the majority, including mi..it's juz a dream, for us to enjoy ONLY in our dream..Hence do we get to choose in life? For the example cited above, we do get to choose in life..following will be another example where in my own opinion, we dun get to choose..we'll have to accept it and live with it..

None of us will have a chance to choose who r parents are, if u r lucky enough..u''ll be born in a gd family with gd parents..they'll care for u, provide for u and shelter u..BUT wad if yur parents are a compulsive gambler, drug addicts, womanizer and many other more for example for mi to list..for the latter one, wad can we do? every cents tt we saved and earned are been spend by them, when u have an inconsiderate parent, wad can u do? many can say break ties with him/her for example, but i have come across many cases, even though i use the term parent but only either your father or mother is a negative one, the other is a positive one, but of course there r cases where both is negative..when u say break ties, u will have to actually think of the other party feeling..u might want to break tie with yur father but wad abt yur mum, can u bear to hurt her? Hence in this case do we get to choose? Most prob nt, wad we can do is to live with it..BUT we can choose to and remind ourselves nt to follow their foothpath..

I can still go on and on, but i shall stop here and leave the qns for u guys to ponder...for the lucky ones, treasure wad u have nw..for the unlucky ones, dun give up..I BELIEVE and REALLY BELIEVE, maybe someday,somehow things will improve....